Friday, September 9, 2011

Meet the Bereaved Father's Choir

Terror attacks. Loss of life in military service. Untimely death of a young loved one.  How do people cope? How does a parent keep breathing and putting one foot in front of another when he has outlived his precious child?  Today The 2 Spies would like to share with you the solution that one group of fathers has found. May we find strength and encouragement in their story.  Shabbat Shalom.

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The Bereaved Father’s Choir is made up of a group of bereaved fathers whose children fell during their military service or were killed in terrorist attacks.The group members cope with bereavement by getting together and performing Israeli songs.  They say that singing helps them to cope with the difficult loss.

Moshe Har Melekh lost his son, Shuli, eight years ago. One day after marking his son’s yahrzeit (anniversary of death), he joined his choir friends for their weekly meeting.

“I think I get the strength to sing from my son,” Har Melekh said, explaining how he gathered the strength to sing one day after remembering his fallen son. “He was a happy man, he believed in life, he believed that you have to continue. He believed in the land of Israel and in Israel’s Torah so I think that our being here today is exactly what he would have wanted.”

Har Melekh said that despite the great losses the men feel, the songs they sing are not sad.

“I think the songs are happy,” he said. “We sing together for the future: for our children, for our grandchildren. I think that singing together gives hope to all of us.”

The choir has already released one album and will soon release a second one. The choir recently recorded a song with the IDF’s Chief Cantor, Lt.-Col. Shai Abramson and, as Har Melekh explained, “We are getting together with the IDF to say that we are here despite what happened to us. We hope that our loss was not for nothing.”

One choir member, Cantor Moshe Keinan who lost his son Avihu, recently released a single put to the tune of Jewish Canadian singer Leonard Cohen’s song, “Hallelujah.” The words Keinan sang, however, were completely different and reflected his own personal loss.

From my soul to my G-d, I call you
I trust in You and shall not fear
G-d is my strength and stronghold,
and my song
Open a gate of repentance for me
And I will pass through it crying
All souls shall praise G-d, halleluya

1 comment:

  1. This is a beautiful post. Such heart these men have. It reminds me of David's song in Kethuvim: You turned my lament into dancing, you undid my sackcloth and girded me with joy that my whole being might sing hymns to You endlessly; my G-d I will praise You forever.


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